May 29, 2007

Balloons, Celebrations, and Ramblings

More Balloons in Belgium



This past week Tony's Aunt Jean, Uncle Craig, and cousins Alex and AJ visited us in Brussels. We had a wonderful time, and they took day trips to Ghent and Amsterdam, in addition to visiting museums and other sights in Brussels and London (from where they arrived and departed Europe). Grayson LOVED playing with everyone (he could say their names pretty well by the time they left!).


AJ and Alex at Brussels' Grand Place

6 Wonderful Years!

This month Tony and I celebrated our 6th Wedding Anniversary with a trip to London to see the musical Mary Poppins. Grayson stayed in Brussels with one of our wonderful babysitters and was just fine, though VERY happy to see us when we got home!

Mommy and Grayson backpack through Paris

A few weekends ago Tony had to go to the U.S. on business, so Grayson and I packed a backpack and headed to Paris for the weekend. We traveled budget-style, staying in a simple hotel and eating ham and cheese Crepes (which are fabulous, by the way) for meals. We walked all over the Left Bank, visiting the Eiffel Tower, the gardens at the Rhodin Museum (we saw "The Thinker"!), Napoleon's tomb, the Musee D'Orsay, the Luxemborg Gardens, and taking a river boat ride on the Seine.

It may sound like a rather grown-up trip, but we spent lots of time at the playground in the Luxembourg Gardens, riding the carousel near the Eiffel Tower, and eating ice cream! In fact, our last stop before leaving was McDonald's (Grayson wanted french fries and Mommy wanted a place with a high chair). Getting around by ourselves wasn't too bad - many very kind Parisians helped me carry Grayson in his stroller up and down the cement stairs in the Metro stations.

Yum - a banana nutella crepe from Ulysses on the Rue Cler

The gardens at the Rhodin Museum

Paris, from Grayson's point of view

Grayson's favorite painting at the Musee D'Orsay (The Turkeys at Montgeron, painted by Monet in 1877) (he kept yelling "Mommy - Chickens!")


My travelling buddy and me


Ramblings

So most of these blog posts are of photos of Grayson or places we've visited, but after 7 months of living here I felt like doing some rambling about life.

Potty Training. We are in the midst of potty training. In order for Grayson to go to a Belgian preschool in September (he'll be 2 1/2), he must be potty trained! After weeks of him wanting nothing to do with it, he's finally getting into it. The key for us? Throwing out the little potty and letting him do it by himself on the big potty. When it's time to go, he runs into the bathroom, yells "OUT" and "SELF" (meaning "get out - I do it myself"), pulls off his pull-up or underpants by himself, climbs onto the big potty, does his business, then flushes by himself. Today we're heading out to buy him more pairs of underpants (which he loves) so that we can switch to them full time. Wish us luck! So far he's only had a couple of accidents in underpants, so we're heading in the right direction, but I don't want to jinx it!

I was pick-pocketed! I guess it had to happen sooner or later - while riding a tram someone managed to pull my wallet out of my backpack. I didn't notice until later in the evening when I couldn't find it (but still wasn't convinced it was gone). An hour later a woman showed up at my door with my wallet. At first I felt a huge sense of relief, until I saw that it was empty except for my and Grayson's Belgian ID's. The thief had taken my credit cards, ATM cards, insurance cards, Georgia Driver's License, gym membership card, an IKEA store credit, and the small amount of cash I happened to have in it (maybe 10 euros in coins). Anyway, it was a huge relief that the Belgian IDs were still there - it took 6 months to get them, and likely would have taken just as long to get them replaced.


Oh to drive again! After 7 months of relying exclusively on buses, trams, trains, the subway, the occasional taxi, and lots of walking, we have finally decided to get a car! For the first 4 or 5 months living here I didn't want one. I loved walking everywhere, and figuring out the bus and tram systems was actually fun. But eventually I got used to my close-in surroundings, and started to get the itch to venture out. So I did - by bus. Grayson and I enrolled in The Little Gym, a mommy and me gymnastics program that was started in the U.S. and is similar to Gymboree, which we loved in Atlanta. The closest Little Gym is in Waterloo, a 45 minute bus ride! But we did it, and realized there is more outside our little world that we'd like to enjoy. I also finally joined the American Women's Club, which is about a 30 minute bus ride. The more and more I took these long bus rides, the more and more I longed for a car. So - - we started looking and we found one. I told Tony I'd drive anything, even a teeny tiny 2-seater Smart Car (they look like toys!). Fortunately, we found something a little bit bigger (not much, though), and in an automatic (rare in Europe, but there was no way I was learning to drive a stick in an unfamiliar place!). It's a Volkswagon Polo hatchback, and we're still in the process of getting it, but hope to have it in the next week or so. Then I will be able to go to IKEA without having to take a 30 euro taxi ride, or 2 subways and a tram!!!

Homesickness. I know that from all the photos our life here may seem idyllic, but there are definitely some downsides. The number one downside for me is homesickness. Mostly for friends and family - my Tuesday playgroups, my lunch buddies, my shopping buddies, my work friends, our neighborhood friends, our church friends, our family which wasn't THAT far away in Florida. But also for "the familiar," which is a hard concept to describe. It's the feeling you get when you walk into Starbucks, get your vente latte, and sit in a comfy chair and read a U.S. paper or magazine for a half hour or so. It's turning on the TV and having several shows to choose from, not just CNN International (which, by the way, focuses very little on U.S. news) or re-runs of Grey's Anatomy dubbed into French or Dutch. The "little things" I miss most that either don't exist here or are very rare:

* Starbucks
* The Gap, Ann Taylor, and Bloomingdales
* American TV and radio stations
* American holidays (Thanksgiving, for example, and the over-the-top way that we celebrate Christmas)
* High chairs in restaurants (only a few here have them, like McDonalds and a couple of sandwich shops)
* Flavored coffee
* Borders
* Bagels
* Artificial sweetener
* Skim milk
* Stop signs (here you just slow down at each intersection, hold your breath, and PRAY)

So enough ramblings about my homesickness. . . there are lots of things that are different here that I love (for example, I've made some awesome new friends and the food here rocks). And I talked Tony into spending 2 1/2 weeks in Atlanta in July. You can bet I'll be at Starbucks every day :)


Grayson's Funny Sayings


Grayson is talking more and more, which is really cool! He has some really cute sayings, such as:


"Sayen" (Grayson)
"Moose" (Milk)
"Fishing Pool" (Swimming Pool)
"Bow-wees" (Batteries)
"ree-see-am-dam" (Merci Madame)
"ree-see-coo-coo" (Merci beaucoup)


And every time he says "bye bye" to someone he follows it with "o-vwa" (au revoir).



May 14, 2007

Greece!

The Greek Island of Crete

Written Wednesday, May 9, 2007

Here we are in beautiful, yet somewhat quirky, Greece. We’re actually midway through our trip, but I’ll back up and start from the beginning. There was much debate in where to go, and what to do, for our first vacation while living in Europe. We wanted to relax (ok, sure, that’s relative with a 2-year-old) but also wanted to explore. We wanted to experience a new culture, but nothing too extreme. Most of all, we wanted to do something we likely would never have done if we were living in the U.S. So here we are in Greece!


We flew straight from Brussels to the island of Crete (about a 3 ½ hour flight). The landscape of Crete is very rocky and mountainous - like a desert in the middle of the sea. We spent two days unwinding, playing in the pool with Grayson, and soaking up the warm Mediterranean sun.


Perhaps the 2 most unflattering photos ever!

Grayson only required “rescuing” from the deep part of the pool twice. Once Tony jumped in to “save” him and once I did - still wearing my flip flops and cover ups! (Tony managed to have the camera handy for this rescue).

Tony didn't take long to unwind - on our first day in Crete he fell asleep by the pool.




By day 3 we were ready to explore, and ventured out to the Minoan ruins of the Palace of Knosos. Grayson wasn’t exactly enthralled with the ruins, but he loved the wild peacock!

Later that day we went to the tiny fishing village of Agios Nikolaos to enjoy the ambiance and authentic Greek food (lots of olives, feta, olive oil, and tomatoes).

[Photos of Knosos and Agios Nikolaos to follow - our camera died and we had to use a disposable]

The Greek Island of Santorini


After a really wonderful stay on Crete, we packed up and headed to the port to catch a ferry to Santorini. We had decided that the 2-hour boat ride to Santorini on the small, but high-speed, catamaran would be preferable to the 4-hour boat ride on the much larger traditional ferry, given Grayson’s 2-year-old attention span which is essentially nil. Boy did we choose wrong!

I have lived my entire life with the propensity to get motion sick on almost anything - carnival rides, cars, buses, trains, boats, and even staring at a moving computer screen for too long will make me sick! So before boarding the boat for Santorini I took a DOUBLE dose of Dramamine - just to be safe.

What I never counted on was that Grayson - poor, helpless, Grayson - would have inherited my propensity toward motion sickness. I had assumed that since he looks more like Tony, is a boy like Tony, and (in my opinion) acts more like Tony, that he - like Tony - would never get motion sick. Wrong! About 30 minutes into the trip, which was filled with bumps, jerks, turns, ups, and downs - - ick! - - Grayson starts saying “tummy hurts, tummy hurts” and I notice he is white as a ghost. I immediately know what is wrong - I know it by heart having lived through it many, many times myself. And I also know because the entire time I’ve been staring at the horizon, praying that I would not get sick and praying that the 2 doses of Dramamine would be enough to save me from what seems to be inevitable suffering given the tossing and turning of the boat.

About 10 minutes later, Grayson starts throwing up and screaming (Tony - the only stable person at this point - is holding him, and takes the brunt of the mess). Yes, it is true, he takes after his Mom and gets seasick. No more boat trips for Grayson without children’s Dramamine. Poor baby - I would have never wished this on him - never!

Afterward he fell asleep exhausted and slept the remaining 1 ½ hours of the boat trip. I spent that time using every ounce of energy to fix my gaze on the horizon, despite my head wanting to spin. I managed to make it to Santorini just dizzy, not sick or falling over, just dizzy and exhausted from staring and clenching my hands and teeth and praying for the sight of land (and I’m not exaggerating here).

So here we are in Santorini. It has to be the most uniquely beautiful place I have ever been to. The photos speak for themselves. The island comprises a dormant volcano which erupted in 1450 BC, with extremely high cliffs on one side and black volcanic beaches on the other.

The town of Fira, Santorini

On our first day visiting the town of Fira, which is high on the cliffs overlooking the caldera (the center of the volcano), we lucked out and Grayson fell asleep in his stroller right before lunch. Tony and I enjoyed a very long, peaceful lunch at a cliff top restaurant staring at the mountains and the sea. It was breathtaking.



Being on the side of a cliff, Fira is not exactly the most child-friendly town (in fact, most hotels in Fira will not accept children for safety reasons), but we managed anyway, pushing Grayson up and down the cobbled streets.


Kamira, Santorini

Written Friday, May 11, 2007

We spent two of our days in Santorini at the black sand beach in the town of Kamira (as this is the "flat" and more child-friendly side of the Island, it's also where our hotel was located). The “sand” is really black pebbles ranging in size from tiny grains in some places to rocks the size of your fist in others. Since we were visiting at the very start of the tourist season, the beach scene was very calm - we loved it! The water was still too cold for swimming but the air was warm with a gentle breeze - it was very pleasant.



The Greek people are, in my opinion, a bit quirky in a nice kind of way. I kept thinking back to the movie My Big Fat Greek Wedding and you know - it’s quite similar. As we’d walk along the street in the beach town of Kamira, all the restaurant owners would start talking to you, trying to get you to take a table. When we finally sat down, ordering was sometimes a challenge. They are very persuasive, you see, and want to make sure that you order well. At our favorite restaurant in Kamira (the only one with highchairs) the Greek “Mama” (as she called herself) simply stood outside talking to current and prospective patrons. We bought it, totally, took pictures with her, and promised to come back (which we did).


The Greek Orthodox churches in Santorini are beautiful. This church overlooking the Kamira beach was no exception.


The town of Oia, Santorini

One night we left Grayson at the hotel with a babysitter so that Tony and I could watch the famous Santorini sunset from the town of Oia. It was beautiful, as were the views of the caldera and the blue domed Greek Orthodox churches.








Athens, Greece

After an amazing stay in Santorini, we flew to Athens, the birthplace of European civilization, for a quick visit. Unfortunately, I arrived in Athens with a bad case of tonsilitis, so all I saw of Athens was the inside of the hotel and views of the Acropolis from the hotel rooftop patio.


Tony and Grayson hiked (actually, Tony hiked and carried Grayson) the Acropolis to view the Parthenon (built in 447 BC).


Other sights in Athens, including the Parliament and its changing of the guards ceremony

Mr. Independent, had to stand alone on the metro in Athens (his new favorite word is "self" - meaning - stop helping me, I'll do it myself)

My time in Athens was less than glorious

Bye bye Greece - it's back to Brussels!